[FIXED] [HSY] Uninvited Sims entering homes to ask to be BFF/Prom/.. [ Edited ]

[Sixpence2]

Product: The Sims 4
Platform:PC
Which language are you playing the game in? English
How often does the bug occur? Every time (100%)
What is your current game version number? 1.90.375.1030
What expansions, game packs, and stuff packs do you have installed? All expacs, kits, and stuff packs.
Steps: How can we find the bug ourselves? Run any new game and introduce your Sim to others. After completing a Welcome Wagon event seems to bring multiple Sims in for best friend requests.
What happens when the bug occurs? Sims you have formally met walk into your home uninvited and ask to be best friends. Sometimes multiple Sims enter, all asking to be best friends. Adult Sims are also asking teens.
What do you expect to see? I expect Sims to not enter uninvited and ask to be best friends. I also don’t expect Adults to ask younger Sims to be best friends.
Have you installed any customization with the game, e.g. Custom Content or Mods? Not now. I've removed them.
Did this issue appear after a specific patch or change you made to your system? Yes
Please describe the patch or change you made. High School Years install

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I had a mod to help with Spellcaster learning but it was removed and I ran a file repair to be certain there was not corruption.

Edit By Crinrict: Added Tag to Title, Adjusted Title, Added Base Game Version Number, fixed duplicate template

[crinrict · Accepted solution]

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Set your boundaries! There should be fewer invitations to become BFF with other Sims.

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Fixed in Patch 1.101.290/1.81

Please create a new thread if you're still experiencing this issue,

[Rachelharris31]

Product: The Sims 4
Platform:xbox series
Which language are you playing the game in? English
How often does the bug occur? Every time (100%)
What is your current game version number? Most Current Patch
What expansions, game packs, and stuff packs do you have installed? All packs.
Steps: How can we find the bug ourselves? Talk to any sims
What happens when the bug occurs? Sims constantly ask to be best friends they also come into your home univited and ask.
What do you expect to see? I expect Sims to not enter uninvited and ask to be best friends. No asking to be best friends constantly 
Have you installed any customization with the game, e.g. Custom Content or Mods? No
Did this issue appear after a specific patch or change you made to your system? Yes
Please describe the patch or change you made. Added high school years.

[SimmerStar4]

@Sixpence2 Is this happening regardless of whether or not the lot has the Private Dwelling trait?

[SimmerStar4]

@Rachelharris31 Is this happening regardless of whether or not the lot has the Private Dwelling trait?

[Rachelharris31]

@SimmerStar4 It happens with or without the trait i added private dwelling thinking it would stop it but it doesn't.

[SimmerStar4]

@Rachelharris31 Okay. Seems like something in the code maybe has entering a home and asking to be best friends overriding the lot trait then.

[Xthrock]

Product: The Sims 4
Platform:windows pc
Which language are you playing the game in? english
How often does the bug occur? sporadically
What is your current game version number? 1.90.375.1020
What expansions, game packs, and stuff packs do you have installed? every.single.one.
Steps: How can we find the bug ourselves? hmm.. i have lots of sims on one save, two in one house on each world, so...38. Each couple is besties, and most are affianced; i'm playing them rotationally, and all 38 sims are friends with all the others (but you can only have one BEST friend, right?) 
What happens when the bug occurs? One of the 38 (who is already best friends with THEIR fiance) comes over to a household I'm playing in another world, comes into the house uninvited (oh - and all 38 have the "always welcome" trait) and i get a pop-up box that i haven't seen before HSY asking to be besties with a sim (who is already besties with THEIR OWN fiance) - so they say no, and the relationship deteriorates, They send the sim with the boundary issues home, and then they COME BACK on the SAME DAY and DO IT AGAIN.
What do you expect to see? My sims being besties with the sims I MAKE them be besties with and RESPECTING it (laughing)
Have you installed any customization with the game, e.g. Custom Content or Mods? no cc or mods
Did this issue appear after a specific patch or change you made to your system? yes. HSY

[xjodielaura]

Same for me on console. 

summer holiday walked in and asked my child to be best friends (even though they didn’t even know each other) so I said no and then she asked again literally 10 seconds later so I said no again 

[Sixpence2]

@SimmerStar4 Yes this happens regardless of the Private Dwelling lot trait. That's also not a trait I want to use since I like Sims knocking on the door to visit.

[Robecoyote]

Unplayed Sims are being really intrusive and needy since the expansion. My sims home is constantly being invaded by uninvited sims who just barge right in, walk up to one of my played sims (no matter what they are doing), and are either asking to be best friends (despite having a sliver of relationship bar), or asking my teens to go to prom. (The prom thing also happens *constantly* when following a sim to school. They are being asked by different sims to go to prom over and over, even by the same sims after a short break). Aside from being really annoying at home, causing negative moods on played sims, it's also dramatically impacting scores with friend sims, as having to reject them over and over for the prom question causes a very big hit to the relationship scores (I avoid it by just saying yes to the best friend question as it balances out overall with how often it happens), but the prom one is important because I want to control who my sim goes to prom with.... their sweetheart.