Yeah this is becoming a total shitemare.
The people I play with aren't having the issue anywhere near as badly as I am.
Tried reinstalling the game, app resets, console resets (PS4). Absolutely no luck.
Getting DC'd after every game just now too.
I've literally tried every "fix" people have for this problem.
I have found a way to get into a game every 3 minutes or so though. Restarting my computer completely allows me to get into a single game before DC-ing me again. Having an SSD allows me to play games quite regularly...but it's still annoying.