I can never finish a game with my friends. It's like if we don't kill the computer in 30 minutes we will never finish. MY brother and I prefer playing longer games and taking our time, but we become extremely aggressive to try and complete our games. We cannot see our final kill count unless we finish, there's no kill count anywhere during a game or if it disconnects.
A surplus of units from multiple teams seems to trigger the disconnection, but recently, we have had several games where we have eliminated a few computers and it still disconnects.
It's very frustrating, seeing the kill count is fun as well. I wish that feature would come back .