Sorry for the late reply, was unable to touch my computer at all for the last few days.
That traveler thing really sounds marvelous to try out, thanks for the link, going to read through.
I decided that I'm going to save my family to the bin with the necessary mod and all the information in this thread to look into start a new game, cause problems keep coming back like wasps on a glas of lemonade...
I installed a lot of mods along the way during this save, most from nraas, some from other sources, some were not computable with the other or not working and I deleted it, I can imagine this caused a lot of errors and corrupted the save.
Thank you for your time, the answers and all the information you have given. Much obliged!!
