I wanted to know is there a way to disable toddlers? As i do not really like them, Also when i click on objects sims ECT it has a 5 sec delay help?...
Are you using mods/CC those will sometimes cause a delay.
As for disabling the toddlers you cant I'm afraid as they were an update to the game the only thing you can do is age them up by using birthday option or by going into CAS and aging them up that way.
If you are using no mods then try a repair using origin by right clicking on the sims 4 icon and select repair