Sims can’t get married

by iizxlxcy
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Sims can’t get married

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Product: The Sims 4
Platform:Sony Playstation 4
Which language are you playing the game in? English
How often does the bug occur? Every time (100%)
What is your current game version number? Not sure
What expansions, game packs, and stuff packs do you have installed? None
Steps: How can we find the bug ourselves? I don’t know I just am not sure how my sims can’t get married. I’ve got everything but it isn’t working
What happens when the bug occurs? Both my sims have been engaged. I have got the arch and everything ready but when I start the wedding invites it says you must get engaged.
What do you expect to see? I hope that this can be fixed in anyway or if I’m doing anything wrong, what am I doing wrong?
Have you installed any customization with the game, e.g. Custom Content or Mods? Never used.
Did this issue appear after a specific patch or change you made to your system? Neutral/Not Sure 

My sims can’t get married 

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Re: Can’t Get my sims married

Community Manager

@iizxlxcy

 

Have you used the phone? The phone can be used plan the event and invite your guests. When you've the event created and guests invited, the wedding should start immediately, spawning you in your chosen venue. 

 

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@EA_Lanna That’s the problem. I can’t invite- it won’t let me set up the wedding invite to people it says ‘you arnt engaged’ but my sims are!
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Hero
@iizxlxcy Does eloping work or do you not have that option ?

Good Luck
Crin

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Community Manager

Hi @iizxlxcy,

Can I ask, did one of the pair reject the engagement offer at the time?

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@crinrict I don’t think I have that option.

 

@EA_Lanna Nope. It happened when I first had sims- around Christmas time. It wasn’t working so about a few weeks ago I made a new sim life (which is the sim life I’m currently on) and the male sim proposed to the female sim. - it said engaged but when I clicked the wedding invites it said you must get engaged first.

 

(CM: Posts merged after merging of threads)

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Hi @iizxlxcy

 

I've merged your threads together on this to keep information together (some posts sharing the same info has been removed also). 

 

When you click on the relationships tab and open up the profile of the Sim that's engaged to yours what does it say?

Also, when you left click on the Sim you're getting engaged to, what options appears?

Could you upload a screenshot of what you can see for both of these please?

 

I've popped open my game and proposed to Rex to replicate the steps and to check out the options. I've added the same screenshots I'm looking from you under the spoiler tag . Please click on the spoiler tag to expand and view the screenshots. 

 

Spoiler

 Relationship Profile after my Sim proposed:

Engaged Sims.PNG

 

After my Sim proposed to Rex, I then got the following options: 

engaged sim options.jpg

 

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Spoiler
 

Hi yes I will tomorrow if that’s ok. These pictures I have sent I took a few days ago to show my cousin who is an expert at sims. She is so confused as well as me.

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Hero (Retired)

@iizxlxcy It looks like your sims are already married in that second picture. They have both the engaged and married buffs on their bar. 

 

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@PoptartJuniper Sorry, the pictures should be the other way around but they never had the engagement wedding party.
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