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[Open] Disappearing contacts and relationships of Sims

by PaQuilter1
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@PaQuilter1 That is so odd. Allot of people having issues with adding contacts. I have this issue too with contacts but so far my friendships have not disappeared . I hope EA can help you find a fix. SimFanatic is having a party in a few hours. If you send in Tyler, I can send in Van. Have tyler talk to van and see if their friendship reappears on your end. Just let me know and I'll send Van to the party 

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I have the same issue. I’m finding that at a party I add Sims to their contact list and then after a day or so the Sim is gone from their list. I have to re-add them all the time and start the relationship over again. 

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Do you guys start stories with these contacts?

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@Phantomlover1717 I know that @PaQuilter1 post is a moth old but they had started a story with one of my sims and their story disappeared from PAQuliter's game. My sim did start a story with PaQuilter's sim and the story completed. Both sims are retired now. You will have to ask PaQilter if they started a new story with other sims and are having issues with those stories disappearing.

 

It could have just been a fluke with mine and her sim. We both started different stories between the same sims in both our games. It's possible that since I started my story first with PaQuilter's sim, it knocked out or purged the story PaQilter started on their end with the same sims? 

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@JulesDarling suffers from this bug. She tries to add one of my sims as a contact but my sim keeps on disappearing from her contacts list.

 

This is frustrating.

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Hi @Phantomlover1717 I have lost contacts as soon as I have left a party! I am so worried about it that now I will only add one or two and even that is a risk. I had contacts from the beginning of my time here just to have them go away. I can literally fill up a list with , say ten new contacts and as soon as I leave a party I will only have family there.

@Fuzzernutter I was aware that you can keep them if a relationship was started but as far as just the contact list, I keep only a few , say ten per Sim and it disappears ! I am up today but often after a Party the list goes to family only. If I get time and if it happens ( they disappear ) I will post the list. Thank you for your help! ♥️

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@mrdoggie94 @JulesDarling contact list is different than what PaQuilter had. 

 

PaQuilter actually started a friendship story with my sim. The story disappeared and they had to keep starting the story over

 

Have you started an actual relationship story between your sims? 

 

I posted a separate thread in tech on the contact list and party lists not working should you want to add your issue there 

 

 

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Didn't realize that they are different. But sims who you have relationship story with should be in your contacts...

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@mrdoggie94 The contact list can only handle so many sims. If you started a relationship story you can call the sim to come over that way . You have to start a story in order to advance the relationship anyway 

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I’m having a problem, I have been about half way through my wedding tasks and then went to bed (irl) the next morning the wedding tasks had disappeared the same happened with babies. What do I do?????

 

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