December 2021
It's the same for me. I build an extra large kitchen with plenty of counterspace. Playtested it, everything works fine. But the cooking together animation is super frustrating, because the Sims just stand around. Maybe after the main Sim almost finished cooking, another Sim starts to join in just to stop in the next moment, because the cooking is over.
In preperation, I send all my Sims in the kitchen, so they are near the fridge. Then I click on "Cook together" but it just does not work properly. There is too much idle time with Sims just standing around doing nothing.
When my Sim already cooks and I tell another Sim to join cooking, they will just talk to the cooking Sim, but will not help with cooking. Although there is the action "cooking together", nothing happens.
As a family player I was overly excited about this feature. It is so sad, that it doesn't work properly...
January 2022
December 2022
The same is still true for me. Any "Join Cooking" or "Invite to Cook" options only prompts the other sim to stand around and cheer on or clap for the other sim...who is cooking...alone.
January 2023
I have this problem too... Only one Sim starts cooking, others (one or more) gather to kitchen but only to stand there idly doing nothing to help.
April 2023
April 2023...still.
July
This issue is still there. Sims just stand around or join cooking too late and they basically don't have time to even stir something in the bowl.
November
I'm experiencing this issue across my saves, only the first sim does any actual cooking, other sims just cheer them on.
December
January
This has been happening to me for months and still is
January
I have never once, had sims group cook successfully...