[HSY] NPCs ask other Sims regardless of age/rel status to advance relationsh

[Lumiasta]

Same thing just happened. Teen boy that the teen girl in my household is in a romantic relationship with -- they recently had their first kiss -- asked that sim's adult mother to be their girlfriend. 

The mother is adult, and married to the teen girl's father. The two teens are best friends and with maybe quarter of the pink bar, so it was obviously meant for her, but for some reason targeted her mom instead. The usual rejection etc sentiments between mom and the teen boy.

[snotbubble25]

Since getting the High School pack, I've had adult sims walking straight into my other adult sims houses asking to be best friends multiple times a day. When they're turned down, it negatively impacts their friendship, now my sims are losing all their friends because they always want to be best friends. I'm sick of people constantly walking into their houses and ruining their sentiments. Is there any way to turn it off?

[EyeKahn]

Hi, new player.  I do have the HSY pack installed but something weird is happening where my Sims are having the following happening from NPCs they've never met:

* Marriage proposals from people I am not in a relationship with
* Asking me to be their BFF when we've never hung out
* Asking to be BF/GF with people I also have not met

How do I make that stop?
It's very frustrating and makes me start most of my interactions with new people in the negatives because they're dejected.

I click on the sim and it has all the funny/cheerful/etc. introduction wheel available confirming I've never met them before.

[crinrict]

@EyeKahn I merged your post with the bug report on this.

[Kiki921]

This occurred after the last patch

[Anna-Hanna2000]

Same issue keeps happening to me

[psydorke]

This is the reason why Sims 4 is virtually unplayable without some kind of mods to tweak the stupid, buggy NPC behavior. In this case, I use MCCC to just force the intruding sim to go home. Click on the uninvited sim -> choose MCCC -> Self Command -> Main Interactions -> Go Home.

It seems like a lot, but it's nothing compared to having to deal with the consequences of rejecting the sim, or accepting, then losing your best friend.

Every damn release, there's some idiotic behavior that's introduced which not only makes this reality simulation less realistic, but frustratingly annoying.

[Hawksdaughter]

I have no idea if this is a bug or not, doesn't quite seem like it, but here it is.

What I don't understand is why every sim that reaches a certain friendship level with your sim, asks to be your best friend. If you already have one and say 'no', then they get sad and friendship level drops. And why the seemingly harsh response choice: "no way"?! That's just mean. I'd rather say something along the lines of "hey, you're a really good friend that I don't want to lose, but I have a best friend already". 

Is anyone noticing this?

(and thank you EA_ Lanna)

[crinrict]

@Hawksdaughter I merged your post with existing report.

Make sure to click me too on the first post.

[Hawksdaughter]

Thank you!!