Re: [OPEN] Sims cannot propose

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Re: [OPEN] Sims cannot propose

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@crinrict
I may have found a common factor to the "cannot propose to someone in your employ". Very recently this happened in two different saves.
In both cases the Sims were in a club with my Teen as leader. I did not disband the club when my Teen became a YA but they were no longer in the club. The Sims in both cases had been club members.
Going to test to see if I can delete the club.
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Re: [OPEN] Sims cannot propose

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@EuphorialQueen wrote:
@crinrict
I may have found a common factor to the "cannot propose to someone in your employ". Very recently this happened in two different saves.
In both cases the Sims were in a club with my Teen as leader. I did not disband the club when my Teen became a YA but they were no longer in the club. The Sims in both cases had been club members.
Going to test to see if I can delete the club.
Since the age limit was Teen my now YA Sim cannot do anything with the club they founded.
Tried romancing a game generated Sim they had never met. Still get no option to propose along with the "cannot propose to someone in your employ" message.
Tried going back to "Just being friends" on two different Sims and there was no change.
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Re: [OPEN] Sims cannot propose

Hero

Do they have any other romantic relationships ? Try removing them all.

 

There was also another suggestion a few pages back but I can't remember what it was and currently don't have the time to go back.

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One of my sims met their partner as a teenager. They dated and even exchanged promise rings, and they became "soulmates" when they were still in high school. However, now they've both aged up into young adults, and even though both their friendship and romantic bars are at 100%, they can't even ask each other out. It also says they are both single when they ask each other. They can WooHoo and Try for a Baby, and they moved in together, but they're not even officially boyfriend and girlfriend.

 

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You said it yourself "they exchanged promise rings".

The workaround for this has been posted multible times in this thread by me and others.

The solution is to ask to be just friends and build up romance again. Takes about 10 minutes to get it up to the necessary 10% after which a Woohoo will take it up to the level required to ask for Boyfriend/girlfriend and marriage proposal

 

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Ah alright, thanks for the help. I'll do that right now and update you on whether this works or not.

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