"Proposal" and "Propose going steady" options unavailable in game

[mariahljay]

I noticed that now my options to propose or to go steady have now disappeared from my game. I can no longer offer proposal once my sims are to that point of attraction. I've never had this problem but I've only noticed it after the last game update. I was wondering if this was by any chance a bug connected to my game.

[crinrict]

Are you using any mods in your game ? Is this all couples or just one ? What's the constallation (are they human or some kind of occult) ? Did you only use interactions from the romantic menue ? Someimes using other interactions re-set the menu and you have to start over to get the interaction. Also sometimes it takes a very long time. Just keep on using romantic interactions.

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Please accept a solution if your issue is solved. XP is also appreciated.

[mariahljay]

Yes I have mods but I didn't have any problems with it until now. Is there a way I can find out which mod(if any) caused my Options to not be present? I use just the "Romantic" options. I've proposed and proposed to go steady without issue until now.

[crinrict]

It's in the nature of mods that they need updating with every new patch. See, mods change the files EA makes and if EA changes the Original, the modders need to re-apply their changes.

Remove all your mods and delete the cache files.

Go to documents\ea\thesims3 and delete these files

• CASPartCache.package
• compositorCache.package
• scriptCache.package
• simCompositorCache.package
• socialCache.package

Afterwards check with the creators which ones have been updated or are still compatible.

[mariahljay]

Thank you I will try it and if it works out well I will mark it as resolved.