How do I link Origin with my Xbox Live Gamertag?

[intelligentdino]

how do i link my origin account with my xbox one account? everywhere i look it tells me basically this:

• Launch the Origin program on your computer or open if you already have it launched.
• Log in and open the Friends list (upper right corner) or click Friends menu > Show Friends List
• Click Add a Friend at the bottom
• On the window that comes up, on the left will be "Import Friends" with an Xbox Live and PSN button.
• Click the one you need to link and follow the instructions
  none of this is useful there is no import friends button only a search bar. plz halp

[ThandalNLyman]

See this post: Gamertag / PSN ID and EA Origin account / BSN account - Connection & Changes